Marriage or registered partnership in 2026: all differences (+ checklist)

In 2026, many couples in the Netherlands face a key decision: should they get married or enter into a registered partnership? Both options provide legal recognition of your relationship, but there are important differences when it comes to inheritance, divorce, international recognition, and costs. In this guide, we’ll break down all the differences so you can make an informed choice that suits your situation. We’ll also provide a practical checklist and answer frequently asked questions.

What’s the difference between marriage and registered partnership?

Marriage and registered partnership are both legal unions in the Netherlands, but they differ in several key ways:

• Legal status: Marriage is a globally recognized union, while a registered partnership is mainly recognized in the Netherlands and a limited number of other countries.
• Divorce process: For a marriage, a divorce procedure through the courts is mandatory unless you have a cohabitation agreement with a divorce clause. For a registered partnership, you can often settle for a notarial deed of termination, provided there are no children involved and you agree on the division of assets.
• Inheritance law: In a marriage, the surviving partner automatically inherits (unless otherwise specified in a will). The same applies to a registered partnership, but only if there is no will.
• Surname: In a marriage, you can choose a shared surname, which is not possible with a registered partnership (unless you were already married).
• International recognition: A marriage is recognized almost worldwide. A registered partnership may cause issues in some countries, for example, when emigrating or having children abroad.

When should you choose marriage?

Marriage is the best choice if:

• You travel or live internationally: A marriage is recognized worldwide, which is useful for emigration, adoption, or having children abroad.
• You want a shared surname: Only in a marriage can you choose a shared surname.
• You want certainty in inheritance matters: While both options provide automatic inheritance rights, marriage offers more legal security, especially in complex family situations.
• You value traditional commitments: For many couples, marriage feels like a symbolically stronger bond.

When should you choose a registered partnership?

A registered partnership is a good option if:

• You want a simpler divorce process: If you have no children and agree on the division of assets, you can end the partnership with a notarial deed, without court intervention.
• You don’t need international recognition: If you plan to stay in the Netherlands and have no plans to emigrate, a registered partnership is often sufficient.
• You prefer fewer formalities: The ceremony for a registered partnership is often more informal and can even take place at home or on location, without requiring a wedding officiant (depending on the municipality).
• You want to save costs: The costs for a registered partnership are often lower than for a marriage, especially if you opt for a simple ceremony.

Costs: marriage vs. registered partnership in 2026

The costs for marriage and registered partnership vary by municipality, but here’s a general overview of the 2026 rates:

Note: These amounts are indicative and may vary by municipality. Always request a quote from your local municipality.

Step-by-step plan: how to arrange marriage or registered partnership

Step 1: Decide which option suits you best

Use the information in this article to determine whether marriage or registered partnership is the best choice for your situation.

Step 2: Choose a date and location

• Marriage: Can take place at the town hall or an external location (e.g., a castle, beach, or garden). Note that a wedding officiant must always be present.
• Registered partnership: Can take place at the town hall, at home, or at an external location. In some municipalities, no wedding officiant is required.

Step 3: Register with the municipality

• Marriage: Registration can be done from 1 year to 2 weeks before the wedding date. You’ll need a valid ID, birth certificate, and, if applicable, proof of dissolution of a previous marriage or partnership.
• Registered partnership: Registration can often be done up to 2 weeks before the date. The required documents are the same as for marriage.

Step 4: Arrange the ceremony

• Marriage: Choose a wedding officiant (or use the municipality’s officiant) and discuss the ceremony. Think about vows, music, and witnesses.
• Registered partnership: Discuss with the municipality whether a ceremony is possible. In many cases, it’s more informal than a wedding.

Step 5: Arrange the paperwork after the ceremony

After the ceremony, you’ll receive a marriage certificate or deed of registered partnership. This document is your official proof of the union.

Checklist: marriage or registered partnership?

Use this checklist to decide which option is best for you:

• Do you want international recognition (e.g., for emigration or children abroad)? → Marriage
• Do you want a shared surname? → Marriage
• Do you have children or plans to have children? → Marriage (for more legal security)
• Do you want a simpler divorce process? → Registered partnership
• Do you want to save costs? → Registered partnership
• Do you prefer a more informal ceremony? → Registered partnership
• Do you have complex financial or inheritance situations? → Marriage (and consult a notary)

Frequently asked questions

Can we switch from a registered partnership to marriage later?

Yes, you can. At any time, you can decide to convert your registered partnership into a marriage. This can be easily arranged at the municipality without the need for a new ceremony. The costs for this are around €100 - €200, depending on the municipality.

Is a registered partnership recognized abroad?

A registered partnership is not recognized in all countries. Within the EU, there is recognition, but outside Europe, this can cause issues. If you have plans to emigrate or have children abroad, marriage is often the safer choice.

What are the tax differences between marriage and registered partnership?

In the Netherlands, there are no tax differences between marriage and registered partnership. Both options offer the same tax benefits, such as the ability to apply for allowances and transfer assets to each other without inheritance tax.

Can we enter into a registered partnership without a ceremony?

Yes, in many municipalities, it’s possible to enter into a registered partnership without a ceremony. You register with the municipality, sign the deed, and receive your proof of partnership. This is often a quick and affordable option.

What happens to our inheritance if we choose a registered partnership?

In a registered partnership, the surviving partner automatically inherits, just like in a marriage. This only applies if there is no will. If you have specific wishes for your inheritance, it’s wise to draw up a will with a notary.

Can we end a registered partnership without a judge?

Yes, if you agree on the division of assets and there are no children involved, you can end a registered partnership with a notarial deed. This is often faster and cheaper than a divorce procedure. If you don’t agree or if children are involved, court intervention is necessary.

Conclusion

The choice between marriage and registered partnership depends on your personal situation, wishes, and future plans. Marriage offers more international recognition and legal security, while a registered partnership is often simpler and more affordable. Use the checklist and the information in this article to make the best choice for you. For complex situations, such as international plans or children, it’s wise to seek advice from a notary.

Read our other guides for more tips on planning your big day, such as how to start planning your wedding in 2026 or choosing the perfect wedding venue.